The Best 10 Tips to Live a Peaceful Life with Forgiveness

“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.”- Lewis B. Smedes

“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” -- Mahatma Gandhi

“Anger makes you smaller, while forgiveness forces you to grow beyond what you were. --Cherie Carter-Scott

                                    

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any people misunderstand the true meaning of forgiveness. They believe that when they forgive the wronged person, they let him get away with his doing. And they take the forgiving person to be weak. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you neglect the offences of others.  It doesn’t mean you accept the wrong behavior as well.

 The true meaning of forgiveness goes beyond what have been mentioned above. It is not related to the offender. On the contrary, forgiveness is basically focused on the forgiver (you).  Forgiveness is a process of releasing negative thoughts, emotions, resentment, indignation anger or revenge. Unless the forgiver forgives the wronged person, his pain will last to be part in his life. And this pain will leave lasting effect in his mind as he will be blinded by revenge. So, he will sink deeply in suffering.

 Forgiveness releases you from the delusion of your mind and suffering. Forgiveness reduces or minimizes the feeling of being hurt, because it shifts your perspective to look on the bright side of your life and not let little things poison your life, as Carnegie said 'life is too short to be little." Forgiveness acts like water which puts out a huge fire. When you forgive, you bring peace on the wronged person or on the situation. So you can live happier and go on in your life.

  The negative consequences for not forgiving are devastated. Don't think ever when you don't forgive, you hurt the person who harmed you! Of course not, you actually destroy yourself and your life; because the feeling of hatred will cause a harmful effect on your mind then the harmful thoughts will continue to hurt yourself and others. 

Moreover, many studies show that the feeling of anger and revenge have a direct effect on your health. The less forgiving people are the most people facing many diseases. On the contrary, studies show the forgiving people live healthier and happier and are less for health problems. Also, forgiveness is one of the reasons for healing, because when you release negative emotions, you actually use them for your healing.

Listen, forgiveness is a supreme virtue. It is a divine power. It's the virtue of strength. Forgiveness can't be done by anyone! The strong person can forgive, but the weak can't. So be the one who is born for the divine state.

 The following exercise includes ten steps to forgive anyone. This exercise is actually by “The Silva Method.”

Practice this exercises in a quiet place where there is no distraction and you feel more relaxed.

1-  First of all, write down all names of people in the present and past that you haven't forgiven them yet.

2-  After you are done from your list, start to focus on the name of the first person.

3-  Once you read the name, unconsciously, you will begin to recall all the bad memories and negative emotions that relate to this name.

4-  Start to imagine that you throw all the memories and emotions that you carry inside of you in a container so in this case those things have become outside of yourself. It's up to you to use a big container or small.

5-  Imagine for a moment that all the memories and emotions in the container like a scientists or a very curios child.

6-  Then observe don't absorb without showing any judgment. Spend a minute or two.

7-  Imagine that you are pouring cool water in the container.

8-  When you see the cool water has been covered the container including the hurtful emotions and memories, say: “the name of the person I forgive for (the wrong doing and mention it). Although there is no excuse for the act that you hurt me, I decide to let you go and release my negative feelings from inside me. So we are both free to do better.”

9-   Repeat these steps with each person that you already wrote them down.

10-Finally, give thanks to yourself for having a strong ability and self-love to be willing to forgive.

From this time and on, you will live in peace and harmony in life and even can heal yourself.

 After that, I invite you to read the following inspiring poem about the virtue of forgiveness.

This Place of My Forgiveness by Betty elders

In this place of my forgiveness
Here my soul has found a home
In this hour of my deliverance
No enemies I own

In this place of my forgiveness
I shall ride the Glory Train
I am eager, ever waiting
I shall be at peace again

Take these chains I've forged in anger
Let them bind no more again
Take this darkness it doth blind me
Let kindness now begin

Mighty is the sword of vengeance
Justly must its might prevail
Infinite is God's own mercy
When my mercy fails

Fear, I shall not give you refuge
For you would rob me of my sight
You would leave my soul to anguish
In eternal night

In this place of my forgiveness
Here my soul has found a home
In this hour of my deliverance
His Kingdom shall I own
His Kingdom I shall own  

 

Positive Quotes are Your Real Treasure in Life

  Positive quotes are like a river that supplies you everyday. Positive quotes are the heart of unlimited happiness, success and inner peace. They are your potential to move you forward to achieve your goals. They break any obstacle that stands in front of your way. They change your life mightily as they shift your perspective to look on the bright side of the world.

 If you are thirsty to uplift yourself and attain a balanced life, read everyday positive quotes. Also, write any motivational quote and put it on your desk or wherever you like. Read it in the morning and before you go to bed. And you will experience an amazing result after.

 

-"There is no man living that cannot do more than he thinks he can." –Henry Ford

-"Whatever you think about and thank about we bring about"-Dr John F Demartini

-"Whether you think you can or think you can't, either way you are right"-Henry Ford

-Whatever it is you are feeling is a perfect reflection of what you are in the process of becoming" –Esther Hicks-Abraham.

-"Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step." –Dr Martin Luther king Jr

-"Be the change you wish to see in the world."-Gandhi

-Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life's coming attractions."-Elbert Einstein

-God gave you a gift of 86,400 seconds today. Have you used one to say "thank you?"-William A. ward

-"Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you; they are supposed to help you discover who you are."-Bernice Johnson Reagon

-"Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up."- Thomas A. Edison

-"Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference."-Winston Churchill

-"Win as if you were used to it , lose as if you enjoyed it for a change."-Ralph Waldo Emerson

How to Overcome Any Obstacle by Six Magic Steps

“A hero is an ordinary individual who finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles.” Christopher Reeve

Obstacles are one of the challenges that hold our progress back, stand like a stone wall in front of our way. It actually paralyzes us from moving forward and mostly let us give up on our dreams.

So, in order to go forward, achieve your goals, succeed in your life, you have to figure out how to overcome any obstacles that you are experiencing in your life. Here are six powerful steps that help you handle any obstacle.

-Step one: specify time and analyze the obstacle that you are currently experiencing in detail. Unless you have a clear picture of your obstacle, you can't, of course, overcome it.

-Step two: Cut your major obstacle into smaller pieces. Figure out which one of these pieces is the biggest pictures and cut it into smaller pieces. By that way, you can manage your obstacle easily.

-Step three: Get rank 1 to 10 and Prioritize each smaller pieces based on that rank. Focus on the important one that gets rank10.

-Step four: write down a step by step plan for each smaller pieces how to overcome it.

Step five: Figure out ways and means and a period of time to take your plan into action. Look deeply into the obstacle and determine if it takes a week, month, year or longer.   Put a time frame from when the plan starts until the plan ends.

Step six: keep up-to date with the results. And when you accomplish anything according to your plan, reward yourself. The secret behind rewarding yourself is that you keep track to your success from a small accomplishment to a big success. So from this time and on, you will be able to defeat any obstacle with more confidence and self- belief.

These are valuable steps which apply to any obstacle. It actually works so superbly. And from this moment, you are clear-headed enough to face any kind of obstacles and be willing to manage it. The more obstacles you overcome, the stronger you become. And no obstacles can stand in front of your goals.

 

Who Really Are You?

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o you really know who you are? Have you still searched for the true nature of yourself? The following poem will recognize you that your true essence is beyond name and form. So let’s seize your time to nurture your mind reading these lines. This poem is quoted from the book ‘The Stillness Before Time’ by M.J HOLSEHOUSER   

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Before all experience,

Before all thought of identity,

Before all mirrors and photographs,

Before all vanity, gratification and delusion,

Before all vexation of desire and fear,

Before all suffering of existence,

Who are you . . . really?

* * * *

Move beyond concept, beyond known.

Return to the untainted awareness of the child,

The uncarved freedom of the empty tablet,

Prior to all said, done and imagined.

* * * *

You are the source,

The divine ocean,

The absolute supreme,

The eternal unity of isness.

* * * *

Discovering your true birthright

Requires the persistence

Of an aloof scientist,

Gradually scraping away

At the layers of conditioning

Until one day there is nothing left,

And what you really are is quite apparent.

* * * *

There is really no death,

Only the departure of the senses

And the dissolution of imagined identity.

* * * *

When in every moment

You see without a trace of doubt

That there is no master other than you,

That those many pedestaled images of great souls

Were projections of the intuitive longing

To awaken to your birthright,

Then you are free of artificial limits.

You have at last triumphed over illusion.

You have discovered the most indelible truth,

That you are, indeed, sovereign, eternally absolute.

‘No, I can't’ is the enemy of your dream

 

‘No, I can't speak in front of people.’…….. 'No, I can't afford that.’…. ‘No, I can’t do it '….. ‘No, I can’t sing.'…….'No, I can’t……………’ ‘No, I can’t………..’

       

  ‘ No, I can't' is the silence voice that kills your dream, holds you back, misses all opportunities  to success because it limits your belief  in yourself and your ability. ‘No, I can't' is the enemy that invades your subconscious mind.

When we were children, we had unlimited imagination and dreams for anything we like. We could do and be anything we wanted to be.  But when we grew up, many old beliefs  come from our parents, neighbors, teachers and the society have began  to stick in our mind, For example, you can’t achieve your dream before you join collage, you are nothing  without education . So our subconscious mind absorbed all old beliefs that block our abilities and we began to believe that, and the worst is trying to convince others of our abilities as well

 You have to realize that your subconscious mind is the miracle power ever in the universe that can achieve anything you desire, no matter what kind of desire it is. Your subconscious mind is working for you, waiting for your direction.

 Your subconscious mind follows your beliefs and thoughts, so if you have negative thoughts and beliefs, your subconscious mind will attract negative situations, people and circumstances that make it hard to achieve your dream. So everything will get worst. And if you have positive thoughts, your subconscious mind will attract positive situations, people and circumstances that make your dream easier to be achieved.

  I know you want to succeed, you want to believe in yourself and  your abilities, you want to believe you can. 

  Start today and change your thoughts and beliefs, get rid of all negative thoughts, believe in yourself that you can and your subconscious mind will respond to your direction and attract people, situations and circumstances to achieve your dream, and everything will get better.  The sooner you begin , the sooner result you will get.

You can achieve anything you want. You can achieve you dream.  Just tell yourself that you can, tell yourself that everything will work for you. Just change your thoughts and beliefs, and you will change your life.

No matter what the economic circumstances look like, you can achieve your dream. No matter what other people tell you how hard it is to find a job, you can find the job you’ve always dreamt of. Declare to the world that you can achieve your goals because you believe in yourself and your ability.

Everyday repeat the following affirmations and you will find the incredible results:

Yes, I can do it.

Yes, I believe in myself.

Yes, I believe in my ability.

Yes, I believe I am the master, I know all the answers.

Numerology

Do you want to know your life path right now? Do you want to know where your vibration is leading you? Have you ever wanted to know what was around the corner? Here is a numerology reading that is unbelievable accurate.

It gives you exact personal information about you, some events about the past and present and some possible future. Also, you can know about your strength and weakness.   In fact, if you have the enough knowledge to know about your vibrational path and destiny you can improve it and change it by the law of attraction and the positive power of your thoughts. In order to know all about the numerology, you have to register here and fill the blank.

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Top Persuasion Tips to Help You Get What You Want in Life

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ersuasion is a powerful art that is used to change anyone's behavior and way of thinking. In order to become an expert persuader, you need to learn persuasion influence skills. Once you master these skills, you'll get what you want in life; you can persuade your boss to give you a promotion, you can have abundance of money to buy whatever you desire, you can win lots of faithful friends, you can increase your sales and income. So, I put these skills in your hands to work in your life.

Below are some powerful tips that enhance your ability to influence and persuade anyone you desire.

- Try to be nice and helpful

Always smile at everybody because a bright smile is always welcome. Try to give them a sincere compliment to encourage and uplift their spirit. These little things mean so much.

Make them feel more comfortable when they need any help, or be there to guide them for their good. If you do these things, they would be more receptive to you because they trust and respect.

If you want from your boss to do you a favor, do your best to do anything to please him. You'll reach beyond his expectations. Soon, he'll appreciate your efforts and then response to your persuasion efforts easily.

-Understand their situation

 Listen to them carefully and figure out what their expectations .This will prove to them that you are really interested in them. You need to put yourself in their shoes. Understand their situation.  Ask yourself, if their situation is mine, what would I do? Then take the right move that would be good for their interest. So, they tend to be more likely to trust and respect you.

- Mirroring their movements

People you mirror subconsciously feel more comfortable with you. Watch their movements. Focus on the way they act, how they speak, and how they think. If they speak clearly and slowly, try to do the same thing. If they rub their hands while they talk to you, act like them. But, you should be sure that you are not copying them.

- Keep your words consistent

This technique requires a person to stay commitment with what he has said or promised. Anyone who says one thing and do the opposite commonly are unacceptable.

In order to be approved in society, try to follow your words. Once a person appreciates and values the concept of honor and dignity, he will stay consistent to his word.

- Prove that your claims are undeniable

Try to convince them that your ideas and suggestions could indeed be powerful methods to implement. Give them evidence that can't be denied. Prove to them that your products are the best by showing them testimonials, before and after scenarios, and offer details on the advantages of your products compared to your competitors.  Make sure that all your proofs are reliable.  Make a good reputation as much as you can.

 

- Greed sometimes is good

As we know greed is unacceptable. But, when it is used in the persuasion influence skills is good. This skill is popular among those who sell Jewelries and lottery tickets. The person who uses this skill tries to convince people by telling them tales about how his or her life will be much more better after winning this lottery or how beautiful they will be when they wear jewelry.

- Get benefit from the magical power of ' because'

All of us use the word "because" in writing sentences. But, are we use it enough verbally? In fact, this word has incredible results when it is used verbally in actual sentence.

When you are trying to explain that you need promotion from your boss, for example, you can't say “I deserve a promotion for my hard work after all these years in this company". Instead you can say" I deserve a promotion because I worked really hard after all these years in this company. The word always works to your interest.

- Keep up with their wants and needs

Always try to satisfy people as best as possible. One way to satisfy them is to understand their needs and wants. People usually influence when their expectations, interests, desires, needs are met. If you could prove to them that you are really interested and care about them personally, then you will gain their thrust and respect.

 Remember these are the most powerful techniques that you can use them to persuade anyone to reach your goal.  Don't waste your effort. Persuasion influence skills are waiting for you. So, it is your moment to exploit it.